How Domestic Violence Survivors Can Feel Safer at Home by Christopher Haymon
Everyone should feel safe in their own house. However, doing so can be more difficult for those who have survived domestic violence. The end result – a secure property – is enough to motivate survivors, as, once complete, taking action goes a long way in empowering women when they take their safety into their own hands. Once empowered, they’re able to find their voice again. Adhering to security guidelines and implementing other protective measures can help you feel safer at home.
Security Systems to Feel Safer at Home
Your first line of defense against intruders is a safe door lock. Choose one that is difficult or impossible to pick, and don’t hide a spare key near the door. It’s a good idea to hire a locksmith to make sure you have the best option for your needs; you can search “closest locksmith to me” and read reviews from other customers and check out each pro’s ratings. Keep in mind that a peephole or doorbell camera allows you to see who is at the door before answering.
Data cited on Alarms.org show that homes with security systems are significantly safer than homes without. A smart security system offers many advantages, including control from anywhere via smartphone apps. These systems often include alarms, security lights, doorbells, and cameras that all work together. If you have a smart security system or other smart devices, be sure to keep them protected with strong passwords, encryption measures, and regular updates and maintenance.
Home security systems can be expensive, but there are budget-friendly options available. Some companies offer do-it-yourself models that homeowners can install to save money. Although an actual alarm system provides the best protection, you can invest in window decals and yard signs declaring that you have a security system even if you do not. The warning alone can act as a strong deterrent. Inexpensive alarms that go off when a door or window is opened are available as standalone devices that are not linked to a monitoring system.
Other Ways To Feel Safe
Even with security devices installed, it can still be difficult to feel safe, especially if you live alone. A companion, even a non-human one, can help you feel more comfortable. Care.com notes that a guard dog provides excellent protection if properly trained, but these animals are not right for every home or owner. Most dogs will alert you when someone is outside your property, and any dog with a loud bark can act as a deterrent. Other pets give companionship, which may help some individuals feel calmer, even if the animal is not actually capable of stopping unwanted guests.
Conduct research on the crime rates in your area. This will let you know if you need to increase your security. Knowing how far the police station is from your home may also help you feel more secure. If you are moving, remember to check out this information on any neighborhood before you move in.
Other ways to feel safe include playing music on the television and keeping the lights on. Keep your lawn neat and trimmed so that there are no places for someone to hide. If your home makes weird noises, find out what they are so you can either eliminate them or reassure yourself that it’s nothing to worry about. Make sure your cell phone is charged, turned on, and with you.
If, after trying everything to feel safe, you still worry, consider seeking professional help. A good counselor can help you work through emotional trauma so that you can experience comfort again.
Your home is your refuge from the outside world, and it is important to have peace of mind there. Installing security devices and taking other proactive steps can help anyone feel safer at home, especially domestic violence survivors.
Guest article provided by Christopher Haymon
